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The First Monday in May: When Fashion Takes the Spotlight

  • Kim Chilton Griffith
  • May 4
  • 3 min read

Updated: May 6


 A closer look at The Met Exhibit 2025: Superfine—Tailoring Black Style.  Source: Getty
A closer look at The Met Exhibit 2025: Superfine—Tailoring Black Style. Source: Getty

There are fashion moments—and then there’s the First Monday in May.


Forget red carpets. Forget runways. The Met Gala exists in its own category: fashion’s most theatrical night, where storytelling is stitched into every look. For those of us who live and breathe personal style, it’s the holiday we celebrate without needing an invitation.


This year’s Met Gala theme, Superfine: Tailoring Black Style, celebrates the power of personal style as resistance, identity, and art. Rooted in Black dandyism, it honors the centuries-long tradition of dressing with precision, purpose, and undeniable flair—from the Harlem Renaissance to today’s fashion disruptors. It’s about elegance that speaks volumes—tailored, intentional, and deeply cultural.


Let’s Talk Co-Chairs


The style forecast? Promising. 

The co-chair lineup? Flawless. 

Colman Domingo, Lewis Hamilton, A$AP Rocky, and Pharrell Williams, with LeBron James as honorary chair, are setting the tone this year—and each brings a distinct perspective on dressing with individuality and edge.


Colman has been serving standout looks season after season—tailored, vibrant, and just unexpected enough. Pharrell brings the kind of fashion-forward boldness we’ve come to expect; A$AP Rocky effortlessly fuses high fashion with streetwear, and Lewis Hamilton never misses when it comes to precision and polish.


With style icons like Janelle Monáe, Simone Biles, André 3000, and Ayo Edebiri on the extended host committee, the guest list will deliver plenty of fashion moments worth watching.


If I Were Walking Those Steps…


I’d make it a moment—a tailored jumpsuit or sculpted pantsuit that blends polish with presence. Wide-leg, peak lapel, maybe a tuxedo stripe for a slight edge. Something unexpected, too—an off-center neckline, a bold shoulder, or a quiet shimmer woven into the fabric. The color? Rich ivory, slate, or soft bronze. Clean. Commanding. A modern ode to Black elegance styled with swagger.


Jewelry would do the most—layered cuffs, sculptural earrings, and a bold ring (or two). Hair is sleek, makeup sculpted, and attitude dialed all the way up. Because when the theme is Superfine, you don’t just dress—you declare.


My Met Gala Ritual


Even if I’m not physically there, the First Monday in May is still an event in my world.


I make a night of it. A glass of Bordeaux, a candle flickering (likely something warm with amber or leather notes), and a beautiful grazing board that’s almost too pretty to eat. I scroll, text, screenshot, and sometimes pause to take in the creativity. It’s fashion at its most fearless, and I love watching how designers and muses interpret the theme.


There’s always one look that makes me sit up straighter—that inspires a room in my mind or a detail in my next outfit. The Met Gala may be about fashion, but it always sparks something deeper: vision, expression, and storytelling.


Watching from Home? Make It an Event.


If you’ve never treated the Met Gala like your own private red carpet, I highly recommend it. You don’t need a ball gown—just a great outfit, good lighting, and a few style-savvy friends to text during arrivals.


Want to elevate your at-home Met Gala ritual? 


  • Wrap yourself in silk loungewear or a velvet robe (bonus points for slippers that sparkle) 

  • Light your favorite candle—try something spicy and grounding like Maison Margiela “Replica Jazz Club” 

  • Pour a bold red wine or mix a smoky cocktail with a twist 

  • And most importantly, keep your group text ready for critiques, compliments, and cackles 


Whether in the front row, on the sofa, or simply catching the highlights the next day, the Met Gala is always worth a moment.


This year, it’s about honoring culture, confidence, and the style that speaks—with or without a red carpet. So take it in. Be inspired. And if you’re like me, maybe sit up a little straighter in your fabulous space, feeling reminded that style is more than what you wear.


It’s how you move, what you choose, and the story you’re telling.







 
 
 

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